So it's been a while since I posted even though I've been actively commenting...

I've discussed Wet on Wellington as a single female in detail previously, defended the single men and actively hoped for more nights I could get in as a woman.... Time for an update

I stand by everything I've said previously. Wet on Wellington Thursday nights are fun! The group is so varied that your kink will exist. It's so easy to ask consent and accept the answer, today I was playing more than once and was asked by guys watching if they could join in and made my choices. But I also asked a guy if he wanted to come join in and got a no thanks I wanna watch. As always there were three occasions where someone forgot that we use words not butt grabs or nipple touching to ask consent, I like the loud "get the fuck away from me or I will make you" approach followed up with "how fucking hot is consent". As always the three guys who tried it were completely different ages and backgrounds to each other, so individual dickheads not an entire group of people from the same stereotype, so please judge and report the individuals and call them out to their faces.

I'm still having the most fun when I get to be somewhat exhibitionist and love being with guys who make it feel safe to be more public with my play or have a door open.

Tonight's post was prompted by a discussion with someone I'd never talked to before at Wet who smiled at me and said hi a few times as he walked past and started a chat with a joke later in the night... he asked a question that was interesting enough to make me want to stop and answer him properly and a bit later in the chat asked if I had reddit and said he'd been reading my comments... the reasons this rates a post are basically a single guy's advice list for approaching this particular single woman 1. if you think you know who I am from here when you see me at Wet I am totally cool with that being part of your hello line 2. I personally (only one person, others will have different opinions) only start hanging with guys who are brave enough to say hi, join a discussion I'm in with friends or if I'm fucking someone else are respectfully not touching me, but looking at me like they really want in 3. If we've talked at Wet hit me up in my DMs here and let's keep the banter up

My current opinion is that if I'm brave enough to turn up alone to Wet as a single woman and fuck in public spaces or with the doors open I want to be fucking the guys who are brave enough to say hello and get my attention

EDIT - my post says hit me up in my DMs if you've seen me at Wet, not if you want a private lesson on going to Wet for the first time... everything I have to say about Wet gets said publicly.... either scroll my old comments and posts or ask your question here... if you can't even be brave enough to ask your question in this very anonymous space you're possibly missing the point on who I am interested in hanging out with