I posted this https://www.reddit.com/r/JustNoSO/comments/njbf47/so_refusing_to_talk_to_me/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf shortly before I left for my vacation to Georgia and now that I’m back, here’s what happened.

I wanted to update everyone because quite a few of y’all commented and reached out to me. He didn’t end up talking to me (besides a one sentence text on our anniversary) until I was about to come home. And after making so much effort, I chose to focus on having a good time (I had an awesome time!) so I didn’t talk to him either. He sent me a long text the day I was coming home that basically said “I’m sorry I was kind of a jerk to you” and then proceeded to rug sweep the entire situation. He does this when he’s over a situation and I’ve had it. He’s then been lovebombing me ever since, and this is how the cycle goes.

So when our son goes to bed tonight, I’m telling him I want a divorce. I really wanted to wait until my footing was more stable, but I cannot do this anymore. I will have a mental breakdown if I have to pretend for a second longer. If I have to go back to Georgia and bring my son, my mom already told me I can.

So I guess wish me luck as I tell him I want a divorce.