r/JustNoSO

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A place to post about your SO who is just the *worst*. Come for support, come for advice, or just to vent and get it all out. That's what we're here for.

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Checked his laptop and now I want to leave him.

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Examples of enmeshment?

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r/JustNoSO 2 years ago

I've been lurking for awhile but today I'm finally gonna share my story

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r/JustNoSO 2 years ago

What we have here is a failure to communicate

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Dreading the weekend...

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r/JustNoSO 2 years ago 1

Can someone explain my (23F) ex's (25M) behaviour? Its driving me crazy

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My F26 boyfriend M27 slept with a prostitute, im pregnant with our second child.

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Ex Husband Needs Me to Help with the Dog He got to Replace Me

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r/JustNoSO 2 years ago 1

(21m) boyfriend nearly broke up with me (18f) yesterday because he thought I was too good for him

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Another week, same cycle

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Preparing for couples therapy, need to know if this is normal or not

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Swinging left me feeling empty

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The drugs one, once again

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I searched Reddit for "how do I leave him"...

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Finally broke up for good.. I think

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Ex broke the court order and spanked kiddo

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I (30F) am thinking of leaving my bf (28M) for constantly lying to me about his past

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r/JustNoSO 3 years ago 1

I think I hate him..

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Update!

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My boyfriend and i got into a big fight over something he messed up. But I feel like i escalated too. Am i JustNo as well?

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r/JustNoSO 3 years ago 1

Feeling hopeless

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We both have covid. Guess who sleeps in the bedroom while the other takes care of the baby??

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How do you just “take” your kids?

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Stupid husband is a stupid father too.

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Need help saying no to upcoming in-law party….

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