He can be so sweet sometimes. Making me coffee every morning, cooking and cleaning for me, holding like a baby and rocking me in the recliner when I'm sad and then be so mean at the same time? I don't get it. I wrecked his car this morning. Totaled it. No collision insurance so it's just gone. Not once did he ask if I was ok. He called me mean names and threatened me with things like destroying my stuff (which he's done in the past but promised to never do again), even threatening to report the car stolen to get me in trouble. These are just examples but this is seven years of the same story. Loves me one minute and hates me the next. It's like living with Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. It doesn't make sense. I've never experienced this before. Not that I have great taste in men but this darling takes the cake. Why though? What am I missing? He can't stand to be away from me but hates me being around. I've lost friends and family, pets, belongings, precious momentos that can never be replaced. Everyone in my life wants him gone. I know deep down it's what is best. But I'm so scared and confused. Someone please help me make sense of this. I need to understand. This hurts so bad. Just like every other time but I just can't let go. Why though???