Me and my So have been together for 10 years. It’s never been perfect and I believe he has undiagnosed Autism. Today I asked him to load the dishwasher so that I could cook when I got home and he flipped his shit because he actually had to get up. Then he went on a tangent and said to me “Deaf ass”. Now I actually am 50�af due to a birth defect and when I got home I completely when No contact no talk. This finally was the last straw for me. I don’t have any idea what to do as he’s the breadwinner I’m a sahm and I’m over it. He never interacts with our son and my son asked for a daddy who will spend time with him and love him for Xmas.