Me and my fiancé were on the phone a little while ago, and I was telling him (again) how I feel like he doesn't want to spend time with me (among other things) since he travels for work and when he's here he blows off our plans to play games. He's also ditched me three years in a row on my birthday for his sister, plus a lot of the times when I try to just talk to him he'll interrupt me and ignore me.

Well he ended up telling me that when he takes 2 weeks off (for the holidays and my birthday) he won't play games at all unless I'm asleep because, "Playing games isn't worth the bitching" I don't even bitch at him every time he plays games! Most times I don't care! I only get mad when he blows me off to play games! And when I got upset and told him, "Why can't you say you don't want to play games so you can spend time with me? This is why I feel like you don't like spending time with me." I also brought up how the last time he was in town(for thanksgiving) we went out to eat and he was on the phone with his mom for almost 10 minutes while I just sat there and reminded him how he used to always get mad when I would so much as look at my phone when we went out to eat. He then accused me of bring up old things to just try and fight, even when all I was trying to do was calmly tell him how I feel and HE was the one being passive aggressive and making comments that I was obviously gonna get upset at.

I just don't know what to do anymore, we've been together for almost 6 years and I really do love him and want to be with him, I just don't know how much longer I can feel like I'm a burden and not cared about.