I can’t tell you how many single guys we have blocked on some of the swinger websites that we belong to because they’re just idiots. Here’s a couple examples from just yesterday.

Example number one: A guy reaches out to us and says hello. How are y’all doing?. My wife response, “we are good. How are you? Can you tell us a little bit more about yourself?” His response is, “I’m a single guy lol what else do you need to know lol?” ** First, if you are not smart enough to string together, a few sentences that are coherent, you are a loser! BLOCKED!

Example #2: My wife actually reached out to this guy first and told him a little bit about us. His first reply was “I saw your pics, and that pussy looks really sweet and I would love to taste it“ **No introduction, no hello, no how are you doing? Maybe you can start with… How did you guys get into the lifestyle? What are your likes and dislikes? Nope, nothing like that. BLOCKED!

Example #3: The next guy reached out to us first and said hello and at first it started out OK. And then my wife’s reply back was, “do you have any more photos you can share because your profile doesn’t have much on it.” His reply: A dick pic and then a video of him jacking off into a sink and Cumming into said sink! REALLY? We actually had to laugh at that one! BLOCKED!

The following is an introduction from a guy that we are now going to meet up with! CLASSY!

“Hello, Im xxxx xxxxx. I hope you’ll are doing well and that it’s okay I reached out to introduce myself, certainly not trying to be a bother. I viewed your profile and I’m interested in meeting y’all and getting to know each other. Please keep me in mind should you’ll decide to share a memorable experience with a single guy, I’d very much appreciate your consideration.”

He also had adequate reasonable pictures on his profile. And the other responses that came from him were equally as professional, and as respectful as they could be! And when he told us how lovely my wife’s photos were, he did not talk about her pussy or wanting to lick it or fuck it. OK, we all know what we are here for but there’s a way of saying it in a classy way, and a way of saying it like a sailor would talk to a whore on the street.

That would be a much more appropriate response! You must also consider that if it’s a couple, the husband is always reading it! I’ll say that again, THE HUSBAND WILL BE READING YOUR COMMENTS! ! In some cases, I suppose the husband will not be reading it, but would you still want to talk this way to a woman when she might be running it by hubby!? I would think most women whether they ran it by their hubby or not, would find you sickening for making those comments, and for not being able to string together a few coherent sentences.

It’s pretty easy to weed out the trash folks. They easily weed themselves out!