We’ve tried Trapeze and had an ok time. Missed out on the Loft. Now trying Tokyo Valentino this Saturday night 3/21/25. We have some questions as we are still kind of new at this..

Is booze allowed inside? How much cash should we bring? Do they allow a small backpack/bag? Small video camera?

What other tips to make our life a little easier? (I.e. bring own condoms).

I am overweight, but she is a short stunning little hottie (I am definitely punching above my weight).

She will be doing most of the playing, and there are some things we are exploring. We have played with a black couple before, but are there many other options there? She has a fantasy of “assisting” another female with a blowjob, and will participate in a threesome. I mainly get off on watching her with other couples/men. (I have a medical issue, which prevents me from having sex, but I can still cum). Any other like minded couple open to meeting up first? Age wise she is 42, I am 49.

Would appreciate any pointers.