I went to trapeze a few weeks ago on couples night...the first time I've ever gone to a swingers club, I was very nervous and I think it was quite obvious I was new. I would like to say how clean it was and the food was really nice. There was a DJ all night and tvs all around playing porn all night which I have to say was very sexy. I went into the back room and was amazed to see a couple fucking... I always knew what happens in these clubs but seeing it first hand was very different. I continued walking and there is a pool table in the middle and a few people were playing and behind was like a table with bars where another couple were having sex and a few men stood around watching, a man was jerking off to it, I remember looking at him confused but had to remind myself this is pretty normal here.

There was about 5 doors to private rooms some were open some were closed but for the most part nothing was happening. I went into the far back room where only couples are allowed and not much was going on. A few people were having sex but majority of people were just chilling, its weird because I was so relaxed in there. Maybe I thought going to a swingers club was going to be a orgy or just everyone having sex but it was pretty much very chilled, or maybe it was just the night I went which was a boring night.

I would love to hear from anyone who goes often, when would you say is the best time to go and also share some stories with me.