Hello everyone! First time posters just looking to get a feel for what the lifestyle involves, local activity, and related.

We’ve discussed certain things we both (or just one or the other) of us may be interested in, but we have literally zero idea what this lifestyle involves, how to meet people, network, expected behaviors, do’s/do nots, how prevalent the lifestyle is locally, and general things like that. If any of you have any advice, tips, tricks, or just info to share, we would appreciate it.

We are bot private, and discreet. 33 male, 28 female, and we have professional careers. We do have children as well. Any information on navigating the lifestyle SAFELY with those particulars in mind would be much appreciated!

We are both open minded, free-thinking individuals, however wife is socially very timid and shy especially around crowds and new people and slow to try new things. Husband is QUICK to make new friends anywhere and can talk about anything with anyone, but is also very risk averse and cautious. Wife has discussed being potentially interested in bi or “unicorn”/ffm type scenarios mostly toward the “soft core” side of things (oral/light penetration, etc.). Husband has discussed interest in ffm or just f/f and watching or light participation, or “unicorn” with wife watching and is more towards the “hardcore” side of the spectrum (cream pies, anal, gloryhole, etc.). We would be looking for people around the same age mostly but we’re open on that. Would be mostly looking to stay within our local area, but are open to the occasional travel!

Let us know your thoughts, if any of that is realistic for our area, or if how to learn more and navigate all of this!

If you’re local, DM us and say hello! For those interested, we’re both average height, wife has a mom bod with ALL the 🍒curves🍑, husband is muscular/strong but has more of a “bear-ish” chubby build and is THICK with BIG 💦.

Pics for your attention 😘😘

PS: sorry if we’re butchering terminology or commiting any community faux pas, and for husbands lack of picture taking ability 😂