Hi! I'm new to this subreddit but not at all new to polyamory/enm. I've been enm for about 7 years now. I am currently in an open triad and we have been experiencing some challenges and I really would love to talk to other people who have been in a similar position as me.

I never expected to be in a triad but it formed pretty naturally. My 2 partners (E and A) have been together for 8 years and are married. I met and started dating E 5 years ago. 2 years ago, me and A decided to also try dating. Weirdly, a little over a year ago we also all moved in together.

Navigating triad dynamics, co-habitating, mental illness, and more has been tough. We recently started relationship therapy with a therapist who specifically sees queer, kinky, poly people. There aren't any poly meet-ups near me and I've read a lot of the books. I would also just like to have people who are/were in a similar situation to chat with about the ups and downs. Any takers?