r/ExperiencedENM
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A subreddit for in-depth discussion of ethical non-monogamy and polyamory without the same damn questions over and over.

ExperiencedENM Moderators

Last updated: 09/18/2024
• basiliskgf added 2 years ago
• Polyfuckery added 2 years ago (also mods r/LegoBDSM)
• Divacowgirl added 2 years ago

ExperiencedENM Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Submissions only from experienced ENM & poly users

This subreddit was created to avoid the types of questions that users on /r/polyamory and /r/nonmonogamy see all the time - it is a good thing that there are spaces for new people to learn how to do relationships differently, but this isn't it.

We define experienced as having at least one previous non-monogamous relationship and/or practicing it for at least a year (dating either in an open relationship or as a solo poly person).

• No bigotry

Absolutely no bigotry or intolerance. This includes (but is not limited to) attacks on anyone's gender or sexual identity, racism, sexism, slut shaming, poly-shaming, mocking, and victim blaming.

Posts and comments that contain any of the above, regardless of intent, will be removed.

First offense may be a warning, but depending on the severity and the user's history in the subreddit, it may be an immediate ban. Second offense is a guaranteed ban.

Author breakdown disabled due to lack of post history within the interval (day).
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Help! Am I turning monogamous?
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Moving from fwb to official ENM
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Sharing Your Partner
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What would an ENM dating show look like?
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Am I wrong to feel a certain way?
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Local groups for ENM hookups/🦄 or just meeting people. Looking for info please read.
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Meta Issues
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Been ENM for 3 years, first time facing big problems
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