I spent the last 2 days performing with my local LGBTQ chorus in our holiday concerts. We have about 60 singers who are all queer or allies to the queer community. One of my partners is in the chorus with me and another partner volunteered for the event. When I am with this community I see other polyam folks and get to be open about my relationships and the people I care about. It is so freeing and makes me feel safe and happy. While we were waiting to go perform, I saw one of the singers give a cheek kiss to the choir director's husband followed by giving one to the choir director too. It is so nice to see polyam moments out in the relative open.