My wife and I enjoy MFM quite a lot. We like to establish an exclusive and clean connection with a guy, and fuck my wife without condoms, it’s super hot! We are currently trying to get pregnant, so no more IUD, and I’m wondering, at what point would it be safe to have sex with another male PIV? I would think that if my wife is pregnant, having missed a period and with a positive test, that at that point another man could ejaculate inside her.

But… what are the odds/possibility that she could have a miscarriage early on and not notice it? Could we then be in a position where we think she isn’t fertile but she actually is? It would be AWFUL if we accidentally got pregnant from our play partner.

I suppose we could look to condoms, but they aren’t 100%, and considering we’re hoping for a pregnancy we wouldn’t know if she accidentally got pregnant from another man’s sperm unless we did genetic testing in the womb and that simply isn’t worth the risk… I guess the same is true with a guy with a vasectomy.

When/how can we play safely during pregnancy? 2 months in, more? Is it possible or do we need to wait until we have BC again?