So the strangest thing has happened to me now a few times. My husband and myself are “open” sexually. We’re coming up on 15 years together so any jealousy I may have had in the past has completely dissipated.

However, there have been several times, only in my dreams, where I do get jealous. I do not understand why because when awake, I do not feel this same feeling. I am happy in our relationship, both having the opportunity to openly explore with other people. In fact, our relationship has become stronger because of it.

We’ve been practicing ENM for about 10 years now, so this is not a new shift in relationship dynamics. This isn’t the first time I’ve had these types of dreams and although they are few and far between, it does mess with my head sometimes and makes question why I’m having these types of dreams. Again though, when waking up and back to reality, no jealousy.

Does this ever happen to anyone else?