Hello
My wife and I had discussions about open relationships etc. After some friends of us told us they decided to have an open relationship. We've been together for 10y and I have always known she could easily dissociate sex and feelings. She told me she could live with having a free relationship as long as we don't tell each other our adventures. I could absolutely not consider her possibly going out and flirting / having sex with me not being there. It is really the secret side of this, and her flirting "behind my back" However, I would have less issues, and I would be quite excited to be honest, considering meeting couples and swinging, even seeing her having sex with other people in front of me (and me having sex in front of her), as there would be no secret, and it would be "our" thing. Of course we would need to have some clear rules for both of us to be comfortable in this new turn (mostly for me, as l have a lot of insecurities) I would like to have a conversation with her about it, and see what she thinks. I am sure a lot of people here have been in similar situation so l'd like to have some feedback, advices, mistakes not to make etc. Logistically as well. We have 2 kids (one under 1yo), how do you make it work ? Any does and don'ts list? I would be interested in meeting couples through apps dedicated for that for example, but not swingers clubs or "parties", which would make me very inconfortable
Thanks a lot
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