So I’ve kinda been interested in ENM over the years but I’d always want a partner that I’m totally committed to. Anyway, recently I started dating a girl that was open about ENM because she was bi, we went on about 5-6 dates and they went great! I thought we had great conversations and both really liked each other. But when I said if we were to be in a relationship together maybe we could see each other most days but still live in our own places because that’s what I think she would want. Well when I said but if we’re gonna be partners it would be nice to see each other at least 4 times a week. She just thought this was the most hilarious thing ever and basically said that would be ridiculous and she said she’d want more like 1-2 times a week. Which just makes no sense to me. And even when I asked like we’d be each other’s main partners and she wasn’t even dating anyone else but she’s too busy with life to do more than twice a week? So then I kinda suggested maybe we just be more casual and then she ghosted me. I just don’t understand her logic in this at all