I (30F) am single, dating a few people in the ENM scene and I'm tired of being single and I want the security, companionship and love that comes from being in a relationship. I mostly love my life, decent career, fun hobbies, great friends and regular fantastic sex but I feel so unfulfilled without someone consistently in my life.

The problem is, I don't think I could go back to being monogamous after opening Pandora's box, I look back on past mono relationships and it feels so controlling from both sides, not to mention the fact I love three somes, I really like some of the people I'm dating but they're either already in relationships or just not quite relationship material, and it's so hard to find someone to be with who is cool with this lifestyle. Has anyone met the love of their life AFTER discovering ENM?