Struggling with getting over an ex partner. It's 100000% done, there's nothing to salvage... but this was some of the best sex of my life.

My NP is AMAZING and very satisfying, but it's different and I dont want them to change how they are intimate with me, but nobody I've met since my ex and I split has measured up. And I'm not trying to compare, that's never my intent, it's not fair to anybody to do that, but it's happening.

I hate how much value I place on a partner's ability to satisfy me sexually, but I'm just so unimpressed with the people I've tried with since and it's making ME feel bad. Like I need to lower my standards.

Does anybody have any advice on how to move forward here? Cause I hate how things are right now.

For context, everything else in my life is going really well. I'm not solely focused on this and it's not something I'm let effect my relationship with my NP. I still am crazy attracted to them and love sex with them.

It has been almost two years since I've even laid eyes the person I'm hung up on. Part of why I'm annoyed that they even come to mind at all.