I (37F) joined feeld wanting a casual FWB. I have always been in mono relationships in the past and have been close minded to dating anyone who is ENM/poly. Up until recently I realized I didn’t have a good reason to be close minded to it. I started talking to a guy who didn’t advertise he was married until it came up. I stopped to think about it and I decided to continue talking to him and plan to meet up. I am enjoying opening my mind up to the idea. He is communicative, respectful and experienced and obviously seems like he’d be a lot of fun. So, I get fun and experience out of it without any commitment, which is what I wanted, so I don’t see how him being ENM would affect that. In the back of my mind I still have some uncertainties about how this will go. He has made it clear it will be just for fun (no “dating” and getting emotionally intimate, no more frequent than his conditions although we can talk frequently etc), and ideally ongoing and regular. This works for me. Can anyone share their perspective as someone dating an ENM person and how it can be beneficial? Can someone help me understand his partner finds this beneficial? Anything I’m not thinking of to prepare myself mentally? Appreciate the advice.