I have been dating women that claimed to practice ENM but their dating profiles are misleading or have lies which I later learn about. It’s obviously a ploy to attract a potential mate but I don’t like it when people lie because it’s not ethical and manipulative. Has anyone else experienced this?
Why is this a concern to me? If they are lying on their profile, what else might they lie about?
Some examples of what I have experienced:
Posting 3 y/o vacation photos with a date caption then updating the caption two years later.
Being partnered and indicating you are single when the partnered option was available.
I have poly friends I’ll discuss this with but wondered what your take is on this.
If I catch new matches in a lie or suspicious inconsistency, I lose interest. I don’t have time for any drama.
My pet peeve is someone posing as a single woman who then suddenly drags her partner out of the hat. I’m happy to meet up with a couple, but not if you try to trick me into it. Just be honest, people.
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