So long story short I've been seeing a woman who is ENM and married. It's her birthday coming up and I really would like to send her flowers but I'm not sure where I should send them to. I have the address both of where she works and where she lives. If I send them to her apartment her husband will be the one to physically receive them when they are delivered since he works nights and will be home during the day. If I send them to her work she may be asked questions on who they are from and all. She works at a small company and I'm unsure if they know her ENM situation. Also, the owners of the company know me as they are family friends with some of my extended family. I'm questioning if I should even send them but I really would like to. I just don't want to put her in an awkward situation. Her husband obviously is fine with her dating other people but I just don't know how he would feel if the flowers were sent directly there. I'm probably just way overthinking this but if someone could give me some advice I would appreciate it!