We’ve been together for 6 1/2 years. Our sex life for the first couple years was amazing and then it tailed off. She suggested going open to help rekindle our sex life. We’ve gone on and off of being open for the past 3 years. This time around she’s met someone who she has good chemistry with and seems to get along great with. From everything I know the sex in their dynamic is amazing. She’s a wonderful little slut for him. My problem is that I haven’t reaped any of the benefits of it. Our sex life is still blah. She is an absolute slut with him (in a good way), but none of that sluttiness is brought back home to me. I still have the same girlfriend. Yes, I have my own side partner and things are great with she and I. I just feel like I’m missing out on something my girl is giving to someone else. I envisioned her turning into this voracious slut and that I would reap the benefits of her additional sexual attention, but so far he’s the only benefiting and I’m not ok with that.