I am trying to open up more and getting more personal. My husband and I have been together 13 years. He’s 30 and I am 30. I make content and have worked with other people and have had connections with people online. I am open to him exploring more however he gets very discouraged because trying to find people enm as a male seems a lot more difficult than it does for me as a female. How can I make him more comfortable and encourage him? I want him to not feel self conscious when it take a bit of time for him to find connections either online or in person. Is there a better place to try and look outside of fetlife and Feeld? I want him to feel sexy and amazing because he is, and I also want us to explore more together and separate as we try to move forward. It’s hard.