My wife and I opened our relationship recently and I have had more success finding dates.

I found a kinky switch my age that is really fun and cool. She's great, has been poly for years and I think we could be compatible long term.

My wife hates that I have found someone that I vibe with and is dealing with jealousy. Also, my wife has been rejected twice and she felt insecure so she has closed our relationship.

Now a few days have passed and she has a person interested in dating her so she's considering reopening the relationship.

I talked to her about this and she admits it's not fair but still is not budging.

I am new to this so I don't know how to resolve the issue.