Me (f30) and hubby (m30) are enm and have been since Jan. Matched with a few people on different platforms, I've matched more than him but most of mine don't lead anywhere whereas he's matched less but is talking to one woman all the time and they have planned to meet. He's been very honest and asked me if it was OK beforehand which is in line with what we agreed too so no issues there but they text constantly every single day and I'm now OK to admit I'm feeling jealous towards that and I don't have that with any of the guys I talk to.

I have started the ethical slut book this week but haven't got to the jealousy section and want to read in order.

I am also on the waiting list to be called for some counselling through work, originally went for cbt but the lady said it sounded like counselling was more appropriate.

Any advice would be appreciated.