So to preface this my wife (31F) and I (32M) , have agreed to an open/ENM Relationship. We have had some soft swap play and a good bit of fooling around (Oral ect...) and she has told me that she doesn't really need or want to play without me and it's mostly an in-the-moment thing for her. But she has made it perfectly clear that she not only is ok with but is happy if I find a play partner that I can have a FWB style friendship with or even just a fling. That said I have not been able to explore this as everyone seems to think I'm either not being honest or they are only interested in couples. What advice could you give me and is there a chance that it will just never happen.