Hello, me and my partner have an ENM, more specifically open relationship (at the moment, neither of us has found interest in having other romantic partners) for about a year now. They are more proactive than me: have their dating profile, likes to flirt, and is looking for a "friend with benefits" kinda of relationship. Me on the other hand, im more passive? Had Tinder and closed because i got bored, have a couple of people that i am highly attracted to but 0 motivation to actually flirt. For the record, i'm not feeling guilty nor anxious. I just dont feel the energy for It, and im starting to question wheter im mono but more confortable in a ENM relationship. Have you guys had long periods of not wanting more relationships??