Myself (32m) and my wife (32f) have some married friends that exposed their ENM lifestyle to us. They have boundaries and rules that I don’t think would fit my life, but none the less my interest is peaked.

I’m reading The Ethical Slut and it has made me feel so much better about my sexual drive, my love of flirtation, and my search for connection outside my marriage.

I have suggested the book to my wife and she is going to read it when school is out for the semester. Hoping this will create some good open conversations. My question I guess is, how do I start the conversations that go from my interest in ENM to my want to find and connect with other partners both emotionally and physically?

Dms open, and any advice or suggestions would be phenomenal!