So me [f30] and my husband [m30] have been enm for over a year now, he's met a woman at an event and been talking for a while. They met for a coffee date and now he's invited her over to our house. The only problem is that it's one of my boundaries we decided on when we started. He hasn't told me about it either, which is the part that hurts, and it will be while I'm out at work during the day. I know I need to talk to him, not bottle it up like I did previously. But I want to wait and see if he asks me if I'm open to her coming over before I go full monster on him. Not really looking for advice here just needed to put it out there tbh.