How do I know if I am okay with/will be successful in an ENMR. I (F28) just met a woman (F35) who I really like a lot she has a husband who she has been with for 13 years, she says that she is only otherwise interested in women, but will never leave him and they decided to have an open relationship so that she could fulfill that need. As someone who wants to eventually get married and cohabitate with my partner, I wonder if I should just let it go and not pursue her further as we’ve only been dating for 7 months.

I have not asked her to leave her husband and wouldn’t. But I wonder if that’s something that would ever naturally occur considering she just isn’t really INTO men. Anyone in the same boat have any thoughts/opinions/ words of advice?