Been talking to a girl for like 4-5 months now where we kept things on the casual end, but as time went on a little bit of feelings were there. Things went south this week for sure though.
We made plans to have her come to my house, as it seemed far enough in that I could trust it. My wife and I cleaned the house, she was going to cook for the 3 of us, and she was a no-show. Few days later the same thing happened, so I explain that I'm upset that I'm not getting a heads up or even messaged about the plans being messed up, and she gaslights me in a guilt trip tornado, and blocks me on everything.
I then go to re-read everything to make sure I didn't word something incorrectly or maybe something came off more angry, but no. No name calling, or sarcasm, or even yelling. I just explained that my feelings were hurt, and now I'm back at square 1 again. The wife's making some awesome food tonight and has been a big comfort bug, but man it feels like I got dumped and we weren't dating lol
Anyone else have similar stories where communication was just NOT EVEN AT ALL?
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