A vent really. I just saw a post on r/relationshipadvice about a couple potentially trying swinging, and honestly it could go either way, I don't really have an opinion on if it will work for them. But what upset me was this one dude on every positive comment dunking HARD on poly and enm people. One of his comments replying to someone's comment along the lines of "some of the most in love people I know are open" was reeeealy harsh and disrespectful along the lines of "you people can never understand love". And... it hurt. A lot. Some of my best freinds, an open lesbian couple (yes the couple from my last post) (well they are part of a triad with other satellites, it's complicated) are so in love. It's beautiful. Seeing them together makes me so happy. They have a beautiful relationship, and I have been half jokingly asked to be best man if they get married. I can almost feel their love for one and other it's so strong, sometimes I want to cry.

Any way, people on this sub are cool. Not sure why I want to post this but, I figured if I could get support anywhere, it would be here