things I cannot stand....I make good money....my wife doesn't work...i really wish she would. I understand the kids are a fulltime job. But that doesn't help the reality of things... sometimes i wish I could run away...Like wtf...We could be doing so much better....maybe not. I don't know, However there has to be some sort of give. I am able to give help with house chores... kids, take us out. But no one can help with finances... am I the asshole for thinking this way???? When do I get the " break of chilling with kids" lol.... i won't... because we created this vortex of me making the income and she stays home.. its killing me :( i really wish i had an even partner, I understand taking care of the kids is an even task. But when it comes down to the nitty gritty...That doesn't pay bills, it doesn't make me feel like an even partner..:(