Remember the human. When you communicate online, all you see is a computer screen. When talking to someone you might want to ask yourself "Would I say it to the person's face?" or "Is this how I want to be treated by others?

Read the Reddiquette. Read it again every once in a while. Reddiquette is a living, breathing, working document which may change over time as the community faces new problems in its growth.

This subreddit is for people who are 18 years of age or older only. If you are under eighteen, do not post. Post titles must include the author's true, exact age at the time of posting.

You must have 10+ karma to participate in r/DelawareR4R.

Your account must be 48+ hours old to participate in r/DelawareR4R

Exchanges for money, goods, or services, are strictly prohibited. This includes. and is not limited to, any of the "sugar" lifestyle ads, offers for free trips, lessons, tutoring, webpage design, photoshoots, fashion related services, gaming, cam performances, etc. If you are doing something in exchange for something else, it will most likely fall in this rule. Contact the modstaff for clarification or questions.

When creating a submission please include a TAG in your title AT THE BEGINNING. As well as general location. Examples: 36 [F4M], [M4F], [F4F], [M4M], [T4F], [T4M], [M4R], [F4R], [T4R].

Age at the time of posting is MANDATORY

Example Title: 36 [F4M] Delaware. Just feel like talking.

Tagging Legend:

M - Male

F - Female

T - Transgender

R - Redditor/Anyone

We do not allow any personal information to be posted to the subreddit. Including but not limited to phone numbers, email addresses, usernames of any kind for any service (PSN, XBOX, kik, whatsapp, whatever messaging APP is being used currently), or external profiles or surveys. We advise you to share these via PM with those you are comfortable with. Mentioning messaging services by name is not permitted.

No sexism, racism, homophobia/transphobia, ad hominem posts, or rudeness will be tolerated. If you disagree with a posters lifestyle choice move on. You do not need to make it known either by PMs or by comment. Doing so will get you banned from the sub. Do not make a post specifically calling out types of redditors either.

No SPAM is allowed. SPAM includes advertising of any kind other than a personal ad.

You are allowed to post to the subreddit once, and only once, per 24-hour period. This includes deletes and resubmits for any reason other than automod/mod removal. This is to prevent users from trying to game the algorithm reddit uses to stick on the front page of the subreddit. First frequency offense will earn a minimum 24-hour ban, additional offenses will earn longer bans.

If you know your post contains NSFW or suggestive language (you know when it does), then please tag it as such. This rule is a courtesy rule, because although the subreddit is 18+, we are not an explicit subreddit (like r/gonewild, etc). You have the option once your post is submitted to tag as NSFW, if you know it contains NSFW material (pictures or text) and can't tag, PM the modstaff and we can tag for you. Anything sexually suggestive falls in this category.

If you happen to see a post you disagree with we always advise you to move on, providing the post does not break subreddit rules (if it does, report/contact us). Engaging the poster and bickering back and forth usually gets both accounts banned because it turns into a flame war. Note: normal discourse/discussion is fine and encouraged, openly flaming and attacking is not.

You may not post on behalf of others without contacting the mods first with proof you have permission to do this. No, you can't just say "I have their permission". Please contact the mods for clarification of this rule if you have questions regarding it.

Every poster/comment has account requirements:

Subreddit Title coding is a requirement.

For posters: Please put effort into posting. Low effort posts including but not limited to posts with no body will be removed at moderator discretion. Must contain 50+ words and distinguishing info about the author (links and meta don't count).

Posters and Commenters: Are required to be 48hrs old have combined karma of 10 to post/comment.