So you read a post on the social, match or here and you think: "I want to know more about this person. How can I get her to notice me?" Here are a few pointers:

1. Check out their profile and most importantly make yours interesting. If you are posting to only NSFW subs and trying to shoot your shot with any woman that has 2 legs it ain't gonna impress her. Hobbies, interests and a post history helps a lot.🏀⚽️🥅🥊🎯🎣🎨🎭

2. If she says no dm don't even bloody try. That makes ya look desperate or creepy. Many women are married or in RL on our subs and come here for support only. READ her profile🧐

3. Use words other than Hey, Hi, HMU etc in an introduction post. Use full sentences. Be interesting. Be engaging. In fact huge bonus points if you read and comment on a topic she is passionate about. ❤

4. Never ever ever in the entire fricking ever send a photo of your junk. A. Its illegal in many countries to sext without permission B. Its gross and women by and large want to know you first. Those that don't are often hairy truck drivers named Ned who ya don't want to get into their cab. 🤠

5. Be kind, persistent and patient. We really all do have lives. I work for myself, have a job and take care of a child. I have hobbies and friends and a really busy full life. You may be able to sit on your X box playing dragon ball till 4am drinking a bud. 🕹🍺 We are up at 6 for another day of working hard. 👩‍💻👩‍🚀👩‍🚒

6. Be you. Seriously. Be you. I don't like liars, flakes or cheats. If you are in an enm be honest. If you are 19 be honest. If you like thic women, slim women, gym bunnies, home bodies, gamer ladies, witty Queens or just plain Jane ffs be honest. 🤝

7. MFL(myfairlady) - "When reading a profile make sure it aligns with yours if you are looking for long term make sure that they are looking for long term. Don't don't pretend that you want long term if you want a short term fling. There are women who are comfortable with short term. Be honest."

8. Roll with no. 🚫 Its a full sentence. We all hear no and it's an invitation to find the right person. Reflect, say thank you and move on.

Thanks for reading and best of luck!

Lady D