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Feeling like I Missed my Chance... What'e the next Move?
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Hey y'all,

Not new to this subreddit, but haven't posted in a fat minute. (As in ever since my flair was my actual age).

Long story short I took a spontaneous trip to WI for the week to be with family and friends for a sporting event (bicycle racing). At this event I happened to meet a lovely woman who seemed like she was into me. By all means, if you'd like me to explain further on why I think that is feel free to ask.

Anyway fast forward to today and this was our longest conversation we've had in the morning and we were exclusively talking to each other quite a bit today until she got busy with her team and I with mine. I had at least 3 opportunities to offer her my number but I kept chickening out for the 'perfect' moment. Well... that moment never came and I'm leaving today without saying goodbye properly nor giving her my contact info. I'm bummed to say the least.

That said I do have the chance of reaching out to her team and trying to get in contact with her via email. Although, it seems I'd have to ask someone in order to get in contact with her. I worry that this might be a bit... creepy though? I really did enjoy our talks today and I feel like she did as well. It's a last ditch effort I guess. So here are my questions:

Should I even attempt this? I have a few email drafts in my head that I think might work.

How would you feel if someone made this level of effort to reach out to you?

I can never tell when there's an appropriate time to 'make a move.' I worry that I'll come off in a way that I don't want to.

As always thank you for your input :)

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