Thought I would put this out here for cougars and cubs. Recently I have been doing some academic research on perimenopause and menopausal women. The media seems to make a big deal about this time in our lives and pushes things like HRT etc to 'restore' women to function. I am totally anti this as believe that this is a right of passage for women and one that I am enjoying. 😁😊😋

Ok so to my theory... I think that some (maybe a majority) of my cougar sister's are HLF (high libido females). 🤔😉 I was in my teens and 20"s. It dropped in my 30's and has gone bananas now. I also know that some women instead of their libido decreasing in INCREASES at life change due to a drop in progesterone and increase in oestrogen. Periods increase in frequency, massive pheromone production via sweat etc. This means we are more alluring than a 20 year old woman and mix that with confidence and wisdom. Phew like crack cocaine to young men!! 😈😈😈😈

Now other sister's have low libido in perimenopause. This is why you have the DB forum on reddit which is full of men with wives who are going through this period with low libido. This too makes sense as their Oestrogen is dropping not increasing. Men's testosterone drops in later life and their brains tell them to find someone younger as fast as possible to mate.

Now this means that WE as cougars are MADE for high libido males at this time of our lives. This is not abnormal and in fact mother nature knows exactly what she is doing.

Cool huh?

Lady D