So I might be the stereotypical guy who just didn't read through enough posts, buuuuuut, which is the preferred way to meet/find each other?

I find older women flirt with me all the time, but I never push the envelope because I always assume they are just being polite, or sweet, or joking around.

I've met tons of cougars/ milfs online in the past, but they've always been married. I'd like to find a single cougar to actually date and not just hook up with, but I have had zero luck with that so far so I was curious if anyone had any advice.

Again, if there's already a post about this or if there's a better way to ask this please let me know!