I'm sure every cougar on here gets a lot of messages, I know I do. I delete a ton because they either start off with, "Hey" or "Hi" or "Wyd"? OR I receive a dick Pic or a message akin to, "I've got a hard young cock to show you!"

I personally love the aesthetics of the penis and enjoy looking at them but I don't choose who I want to meet by their penis. Every guy has one. I personally would prefer a face Pic. You can have the most glorious, remarkable dick in the world but if I don't find the rest of you attractive I'm not going to want it. Cougars are magical creatures that have learned how to work with any penis. It's not the only thing we're looking for in a cub.

I love getting messages from cubs that shows they've looked at my profile, found common ground and want to start a dialog. It shows ambition and initiative. Don't contact me and expect me to carry the conversation. That doesn't impress me. I'm pretty sure the other cougars feel the same way.

Another thing that I don't appreciate is the, "I was wondering if I could ask you some questions about cougars or being a cougar?" That always leads to how do they find or cougar or questions about my sex life. Would you go up to a woman in public and ask that?

Cougars, how do you feel about this? Am I the only one?

Cubs, do you read our posts or just search out which ones are cougars and message them?

Thanks all!