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I've been going through online dating and stumbled upon a potential older woman (35f) for me (25m). So far I laid out that I'm not looking for anything serious and didn't want to waste either of our time. She replied saying that it's fine and appreciated the honesty (Thank you to all the wonderful ladies and gentlemen for convincing me to just be direct lol). In her message too, she stated that she isn't even sure what she wants as and said it's perfect. She's not in a rush to do anything is what she continues to say along with smiley faces (not the winky ones just regular) and so I continue the conversation talking about meeting up. She doesn't want to be bored for so long (I'm guessing quarantine is killing her which I confirmed lol). Two days down, and finally agreed to meet each other tomorrow once I get all my errands done. She said she'll just be hanging out for a walk enjoying the day until I'm available. I know it's a better idea to meet in a public place, but with all this quarantine stuff going on I'm just trying to lead the day at her place so we're indoors.
Now after explaining the context, the question is: will this go how I imagine it to? This has the potential to if I play my cards right. I've been looking for a fwb relationship for a while (no drama, just meet up and talk without getting into too much detail you know like have conversations in friendly terms without leading to a bf/gf thing, do the deed and be on our merry ways on ongoing terms). She said she was cleaning her room, doing some laundry, and just chilling today in preparation for tomorrow. (I was really pushing for today, but I decided to be patient which is a good approach). This just sounds like normal chores/things to do to me, but it's definitely a good thing for sure. Any advice on how to turn this into a successful, ongoing fwb relationship? (I already know I got to make sure the deed is good if it gets to that which is what I am hoping for lol). I'm just going to be myself the whole time with confidence. I appreciate whatever is shared!
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