Just a fun question for the masses. What are a few of your other deal breakers and green lights, outside of age gaps? What expectations do you have of the C&C situations you seek?

I'm not actively dating or anything. I played with cougars and otters (gay men term) for many years, cranked out a couple kids young in a relationship that didn't work after trying for 8 years, worked on my mental health and slowly became much less sexual after that. I'm in my mid 30s and in a LTR with a cougar who's generally younger than my "type" but still a few years older than I am. I think as alot of us get older we realize more about the values and virtues we seek in a partner more than the sex and attraction.

What says you?