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Hello! Those who experienced major depression, suicidal thoughts, burnout, etc. and managed to overcome it using CBT, could you please share your experiences? Was CBT helpful and how long did it take to notice positive effect?
For me, it's been amazing.
I only reached out for help because I finally reached breaking point and that was really scary. I genuinely had no idea I suffered with a mental health disorder for my entire life. I know it sounds so cliché but I really did learn so much about myself through CBT.
I learned just the extent to which I 'avoid' things because of anxiety - even the littlest things that I never even realised that I do. It all snowballs and was what put me to breaking point.
I never realised what a hard time I would always give myself, and the underlying negative beliefs I had about myself. I even had subconscious beliefs that worrying about things was a good coping mechanism which I never even realised... I mean, I thought I hated anxiety!
I learned that by confronting and doing things rather than avoiding them, I can prove to myself that, actually, there's nothing to worry about. If I always avoid them, I'll always think I'm avoiding a genuine danger, when in reality the danger probably isn't even there. Things are a lot better now and my mental health has come on leaps and bounds.
I learned that my mental health issues come from an intolerance to uncertainty. I've learned how to accept and manage uncertainty in a much healthier way. I've learned that I can't predict the future because it's uncertain, and no amount of worrying is ever going to change that. When I try to do predict the future, it's always negative and almost always incorrect. I've learned that I believe bad things will happen far more frequently than they actually do, and when things are bad or don't go to plan, it's rarely as bad as I think. It's helped to put my thoughts into perspective.
It took a good month or so before I really started to see the benefits, and after every session I feel a bit more empowered. It's been two months and I'm still completing CBT but so far it's been such a powerful tool for me that I hope to carry forward for the rest of my life.
I would recommend it to anyone.
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