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r/BDSMpersonals

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Moderators

Updated Dec 14, 2024
u/fading_reality Removed
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Also moderates: r/bdsm, r/BDSMcommunity, r/BDSMerotica
u/Theegravedigger Active
Added 5 years ago
Also moderates: r/BDSMcommunity, r/KINK, r/bdsmfaq
u/prettykittyjetcity Active
Added 4 years ago
u/SilkenClaws Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/femdompersonals, r/submissivemen, r/femdomsanctuary
u/personals_helper Active
Added 3 years ago
u/subwoofer82 Active
Added 2 years ago
Also moderates: r/bdsm, r/Spanking, r/BDSMcommunity, r/BDSMerotica, r/BDSMnot4newbies, and 2 more...
u/Unlikely_Masquerade Active
Added 2 years ago
Also moderates: r/femdompersonals, r/submissivemen
u/ModeratelyUsefulBot Removed
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u/TeaDrinkingThrowaway Removed
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u/PMmeYourNoodz Active
Added 1 year ago
Also moderates: r/bdsm, r/Spanking, r/beautifulbutt
u/BetterSpot8691 Active
Added 1 year ago
Also moderates: r/MommydomPersonals, r/neworleansgonewild
u/Brownie_Please Active
Added 1 year ago
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u/hungler77 Active
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u/philo-foxy Active
Added 1 year ago
Also moderates: r/flr
u/JustOneAgain Active
Added 1 year ago
Also moderates: r/Femdom, r/Roughanal, r/Roughsex, r/Dominated, r/AssFucking, and 12 more...
u/Obviousbob1 Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 11 hours ago
u/ZealousidealTree5958 Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 11 hours ago
u/Bagelman216 Active
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u/micky56789 Removed
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u/Irregardless_Even Removed
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u/scorchy38 Removed
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u/StatusComet Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 9 months ago
Also moderates: r/Roughanal, r/Roughsex, r/Dominated, r/BondageBlowjobs, r/OrgasmTorture, and 1 more...
u/seeker__82 Removed
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u/nUUUUU_yaaaSSSS Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 11 hours ago
u/Spongey_ankles Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 11 hours ago
Also moderates: r/bdsm, r/Spanking, r/HumiliationBDSM, r/BDSMcommunity, r/Femdom
u/Fluffychipmonk1 Active
Added 1 year ago
Also moderates: r/Femdom, r/OrgasmTorture, r/bdsm, r/BDSMcommunity, r/Spanking, and 2 more...
u/brokendoll1791 Removed
Added 10 months ago • Removed 11 hours ago
Also moderates: r/shibarirope, r/bdsm, r/Spanking, r/Domestic_Discipline, r/Femdom
u/Early-Apartment-9250 Active
Added 10 months ago
Also moderates: r/bdsm, r/BDSMcommunity, r/Spanking, r/BDSMerotica
u/Blackdeathspeedmetal Active
Added 10 months ago
Also moderates: r/bdsm, r/BDSMcommunity, r/Spanking
u/CynicalPlatapus Active
Added 9 months ago
Also moderates: r/Femdom, r/bdsm, r/BDSMcommunity, r/ghostnipples, r/Roughsex, and 1 more...
u/BottMcBotFace Active
Added 3 months ago
Also moderates: r/bdsm

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
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Rule #1: 18+ only

  • Anyone found to be under 18 will have their content removed and permanently banned from our subreddit family.
  • Content of underage people are not allowed in ANY context. (pictures, videos, drawings, stories, etc.)
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R1 - 18+ only

Must be 18+ to post here

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Rule #2: Proper post formatting

  • All titles must begin with "Numerical age [Flair] #Location" (#Online is okay too)
  • All posts must be properly flaired with a post-flair that matches the [Flair] in your typed title. If you don't know what flair is or how to use one, check out our flairing guide here.
  • All posts must include a minimum of 50 words of thoughtful description of yourself and what you're looking for.
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R2a - proper formatting

Post title must follow format AGE [X4Y] #LOCATION

Post text must be 50+ words

Post flair must match title flair

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Rule #3: Be excellent to each other

  • No name calling or personal attacks
  • No homophobia, sexism, racism, bigotry of any kind.
  • No explicit or implied threats.
  • No doxxing/outing/name-dropping.
  • No shaming people for their kinks (or lack thereof).
  • No callout posts, naming and shaming people (Reddit users or otherwise).

    Kinky role play is not the same as real life. Respect others here or you will be banned.
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R2b - post with honesty and integrity (no catfishing)

Posters must accurately represent who they are.

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Rule #4: No drama/baiting/trolling

  • No MGTOW, TRP, incel, etc. type of content.
  • No malicious baiting/trolling or purposefully inciting arguments.
  • No purposefully inflammatory posts.
  • No linking to posts or bringing up incidents from subreddits outside our subreddit family to complain about or brigade.
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R3 - be excellent to each other

No racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, hate, bigotry, intolerance of any kind.

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Rule #5: No advertising

  • No spam/self promotion.
  • No linking to personal blogs, paid content, subscription sites, or other self-promotion
  • No advertising outside chat groups (kik, skype, discord, whatsapp, etc) More info on this and our stance on Discord here.
  • No personal contact information (kik, skype, email, phone, etc)
  • Financial exchange of any kind is strictly prohibited. This includes, but is not limited to, findom, pro-dommes, and sugar arrangements.
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R4 - no drama/baiting/trolling

Do not complain brigade troll incite arguments bring in drama from other subreddits.

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Rule #6: Posting frequency is limited to once every 7 days.

  • Subsequent posts will be removed. Repeat offenders will be banned.
  • Deleting and reposting to spam the new-feed will result in a temporary ban.
  • Using multiple accounts in an attempt to get around this will result in all accounts being permanently banned.
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R5a - no commercial advertising

No advertising companies, memberships accounts, social media accounts, chat servers etc

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Rule #7: All standard reddit rules apply

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R5b - no findom/handouts

No asking for or offering money, compensation, flights, hotel stays, rent, food, shopping, sugar, findom, tributes etc. in the post OR IN DM'S/CHATS

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Rule #8: Mods will use their discretion

  • Mods will take things on a case by case basis and remove posts/comments and ban users at their discretion. We reserve the right to use our own judgment and ban anyone from the subreddit or entire subreddit family if we view you as being detrimental to the community, regardless of if you break any specifically stated rule.
  • When the mods say to do something, stop something, or let something go, do it.
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R6a - post once per 7 days

One post per 7 days (168 hours) only. Timezone irrelevant, this is a timer countdown. Excessive posting within 7 days will result in automated bans.

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Rule #2a: Proper post formatting, age must be in title

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R6b - no multi-accounting allowed

One account per person, period. Do not use multiple accounts. Do not coerce others to post on your behalf.

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Rule #2b: Proper post formatting, [X4Y] flair must be in title

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R6c - ban evasion not allowed

Ban evasion not allowed. If you have been banned, you are not welcome back.

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Rule #2c: Proper post formatting, #LOCATION must be in title

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R7 - all standard sitewide reddit rules apply

All standard sitewide reddit rules apply

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Rule #5a: No advertising, post asking for money

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R8 - moderator discretion

Moderator discretion

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Rule #5: No advertising, author asks for money in DM's

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to r/BDSMpersonals by Minute_Rent_2167
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to r/BDSMpersonals by Careful_Professor453
1 hour ago
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34 [M4A] #Northern Germany - Dom looking for sub/partner to establish a romantic and kinky relationship with
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to r/BDSMpersonals by SpankoDom
1 hour ago
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1 hour ago
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1 hour ago
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28 [M4F] #UK - sub’s I want to hear your darkest fantasies
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2 hours ago
33 [M4T] #Atlanta - Dom looking for MTF slave to punish/spoil
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in Atlanta, GA
to r/BDSMpersonals by the_night11
2 hours ago
33 [M4F] #DC/MD/VA - fun and experienced dom seeking new DMV area submissive (maybe little further)
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in District of Columbia
to r/BDSMpersonals by MasterAbhel
2 hours ago
37 [M4f] #online - Just another Master looking for a slave (tgirls welcome)
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in online