I ran across this lovely article recently.

A nice reminder than the vanilla world still (mostly) thinks we're dangerous freaks...although this article really takes the cake for being shockingly judgemental and over-the-top.

If your lover wants you to shave your pubic hair, he's a pedo. If he wants to hurt you, you should leave him because he will rape you. If he wants to hit you, he will escalate his violence unstoppably. If he wants to choke you then he wants to kill you. If he wants a threesome, then he is a psycopath. (No, really! It says that!)

What a train wreck...

(Bonus: The author's bio states "She has trained thousands of FBI agents, detectives, Attorney General Investigators and others. She has consulted with elected officials, and her research has appeared in the U.S. Congressional Report." So it's not like she's some fringe nutcase...)