I just wanna say, done right, “the starfish” can be fucking amazing. It’s getting such a bad rap from people who don’t realize that it can be made to be so fun and kinky …

My man and I do this as a fun role play, especially if we’re having sex many times or are bodily exhausted. plus the more I lie there and act like a sex object that’s supposed to be used for his enjoyment only, the more wonderfully torturous it is and the more amazing the orgasms are.

(I get that this isn’t the thing men are complaining about with their female partners, but i just wanted to point out that anything can be fun when you’re in the right mood and with the right partner)

EDIT: I just wanted to add that my man and I are both passionate about human rights and believe in 100% consent. Violence is never okay.

All our sexual acts are 100% consensual