I’m not sure if many others go through this as well, but I’m sure I’m not the only one. Over the past year or two I’ve been really up and down with my involvement in the community, and my feelings towards it. It’s like a cycle. For a few months I love everything about it, I want to experience more and more, I want to meet new people, etc. Then out of the blue I get into this “slump”. During this slump I feel like I have no interest in kink, or sex at all.

Does anyone else have experience with this? Maybe it’s because I haven’t balanced out my work and social life enough with it?

Any suggestions to help me find a way to not be so up and down would be amazing (: