Had a session recently with a new sub, in which over video she experienced a very strong and intense climax. So far everything had been digital and there’s been no opportunity for anything in person.

She asked to turn off the camera for a bit which I thought was odd, but not a big deal. I was in the dark for a bit but later that night she mentioned it was because she was crying. She specified it wasn’t because she was sad, it was just that she was only used to external/clitoral climaxes.

I’m talking to her about it but she’s still processing it all and trying to formulate/sort her own thoughts out.

I’m feeling a bit helpless as a Dom so far away. I think we’re getting through it fine just through talking about it but wanted to hear thoughts, advice, and experiences on long distance aftercare, especially if your primary tool is gentle, physical aftercare like hugging holding and verbal reassurance.

Sorry there aren’t too many details from her yet on what made her cry. Input from subs is also very much appreciated if this resonates with you.