I've been DMed by a domme who is supposedly into "findom," which I've heard is about giving someone else control of your finances. I'm not entirely sure what to do. On one hand, my first instinct says it's a scam. The thought of giving someone control of my money doesn't turn me on at all, and I'd much rather give a woman control of my body than my finances.

On the other hand, I'm very desperate to find a domme and feel like if I don't seize everything in front of me that even remotely looks like an opportunity, I'll never have one. It's also possible that I'll get other benefits from this "relationship" (if it can be called that), although that's not guaranteed. To the domme's credit, she isn't acting like a bot. I'll give her that at the very least.

Could you all tell me more about findom and whether you think it's a scam?