My partner likes to dom me but they get over stimulated and can have a melt down (not a sexy one, like over flow of emotion and needing 20 mins to calm down). We have been adjusting the type play we do so it's still stimulating for me but not overly stimulating for them. They can't handle doing a full scene, I am making this post to get ideas for things we can do that is stimulating for me a male, while note Overly stimulating for them. I know I am not giving alot of detail about them but I am trying to respect there privacy.

Mainly looking for ideas that evolve minimal set up and then almost no effort on the behalf.

So example of the type stuff i am looking for- tie me up and then setup a fucking machine and just let me enjoy for a while while they do something else close by.

Doesn't have to restricted the bed room could include chores or tasks